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Cake day: July 18th, 2023

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  • I think it must be something else too, though. I’m a little bit of a weirdo in the sense that I don’t use or am addicted to any social media. Lemmy is my only social media, and I’m not on here for more than a couple of hours (if that) in a given day.

    I’ve never browsed or had Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, etc. Shit, I don’t even browse YouTube like most people do. I do have a Facebook, but it was created LONG ago and i haven’t been regularly on there for over 10 years.

    I’m often losing track of my phone cause I’m just not usually on it. And yet, I’m having this exact issue where shit is just melting together and my memory isn’t what it used to be. I see it in people around me, too. I’m only 30.





  • …sooo I’m a decently attractive (child-free) lady that’s historically been this way with my partners (granted, not every day. Basically all of my relationships have been long-term, so y’know, sometimes the mood just isn’t there).

    This is the first time I’ve heard of the mom fetish, and it also made me feel weird lol. But also made me reflect on why I’ve always kinda been that way, and wonder if this is maybe subconsciously the reason?

    Turns out, the answer is a solid “no” lol.

    I definitely had an upbringing that conditioned me to be the type of person that serves others. And so as I grew up, I guess that turned into a way that I show interest/love.

    So maybe it was a similar thing for your girl? Ooooor maybe she was REALLY into feeling like a mom lol. The world may never know.






  • Growing up, I spent every Sunday going to a church my grandpa established, and afterwards my entire family would go over to my grandparent’s house for lunch. We would usually be there for hours, so many Sundays, my cousins and I would play gladiator outside in the backyard. We’d make weapons and armor out of whatever we could find, and just have a battle in the backyard. We did this from the time that we were little kids and all the way through my time in high school.

    In my early college years, I had mentioned to my boyfriend (who i had been with since high school) that I really missed this tradition with my cousins.

    He bought me this cute little gladiator doll to hang up on my car’s rearview mirror as a memento of those special times. No longer have that boyfriend, but I still have that little doll.








  • I see what you’re getting at - if we’re gonna allow our citizens freedom of speech, this is part of what it looks like. For the record, these dumb ass takes on my LGBTQ+ peeps do NOT align with my own personal feelings. However, freedom of speech is objectively a good thing.

    Problem is that entities like Meta and X are suppressing the voices of people that are making comments against the status quo and challenging the uber rich, and elevating the voices of the bigots.

    All that to say I think that’s why people are downvoting you, but I agree with you.