I remember way back when I had a girlfriend (13F). I was 14. She didn’t snore that loud when I slept over, but she would definitely snore. It just came to mind and made me wonder if it’s normal to do so at 13.

  • @[email protected]
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    12 days ago

    Why not? They felt comfortable sharing something, there’s no reason they shouldn’t, why do you have a problem with it?

    • dandelion (she/her)
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      1 day ago

      because qualifying someone’s gender like that can be dehumanizing …

      edit: not to mention the problems with outing someone unnecessarily

      most trans folks live as their gender, and the incorrect assignment that happened at their birth is not generally something they want disclosed in most contexts