• 24 Posts
  • 95 Comments
Joined 2 years ago
cake
Cake day: June 29th, 2023

help-circle
rss
  • https://youtu.be/om5E4K1bCLw?si=9ue5MZ7VOTYDl-7j

    This is to create a Suicide Safety Plan. Something to have for those bad days and moments. Unfortunately, it just occurred to me that I don’t have a text only alternative.

    I don’t know if I’ll be able to help, really. My energy levels fluctuate, but we are a community, so I hope others will pick it up from wherever one stops.

    First question is: What do you need? You might not know, but it’s good to have in mind.

    [pressed send button too soon by acident]

    I’m not sure if I understand your story. Why does the award bother you? And the dealer calling all those people is meant to show that they didn’t answer?













  • I think the reason for my rant got lost in the rant, but all your examples will help. Nobody cares about any of the issues you mentioned the same way. They are, for the most part, small things that one wouldn’t consider nice, but that don’t deserve that much attention. I expect to hear that it’s too bad that people do those things. I would never expect people to overanalyze the situation and seriously judge others by that.

    Let me change the perspective a little. If a good friend does any of the things listed above, it might bother me. If a stranger does it, I won’t judge them personally, because it’s not enough, I can only judge the situation.




  • Thanks for the suggestion. I wanted to bring this to attention to the people outside that won’t look up even the superficial stuff, which is consent.

    Thinking about it a little more, that quote is great for the people that get convinced to perform a scene because their partner wants to experience being a sub and might end up traumatizing themselves for what they have done.

    Wouldn’t do it to yourself under any circumstances, don’t do it to others.









  • I know little about the subject, so forgive me if I express myself in the wrong way. I support being inclusive to otherkin, but it seems to me that the changes would require more nuance. My question would be if we can attribute human characteristics so broadly to non human beings. Different demographics experience different realities, changing the language might help, but it might just be something aesthetic that doesn’t translate the specifics.

    Is this case just a matter of the broadest category being inadequate? Similar to masculine forms being also neutral and general?