Do, you sleep with your bedroom door open or closed and why?

    • Matt Shatt
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      192 years ago

      This right here. As a firefighter I’ve seen it. Also nowadays if the door is open I can’t sleep…I just keep opening my eyes and seeing that open door…

      • peopleproblems
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        2 years ago

        Alright, so here’s the deal.

        I don’t like the setup of my house, but it is what it is. My kids room door is at a 90 degree angle to ours. I’ve always wanted to install and practice an escape since we’re on the second floor, but my ex wife had a problem with that (go figure). When I manage to get her out of my house, how do I go about retraining my kid with this? He absolutely refuses to sleep with the door shut, even with one of us in the room, and if he wakes up with it shut, it’s bloody murder.

        Her logic (that’d I have been overridden on) is that I am literally 4 steps away from his bed in an emergency, and I could leap in, close the door and escape through that window. Mind you I’m 207 227(edit, she cheated on me again and I caught her on 06/05, probably caused the weight gain) lbs and deathly afraid of fire.

        What I want to do is install one of the fire escape ladders that rolled through the window and practice going down that with my kid before working on getting him to close the door at night.

        Is there an order I should do these things? Like door first, then escape? Or escape first, then door?

        • @[email protected]
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          12 years ago

          Did you even click the link provided? It provides some pretty good reasons with examples and a video demonstration of why it’s so important. I don’t know anything about your ex wife or what your living situation is, but maybe show it to her not as an “I’m right you’re wrong” thing but as a genuine safety of your kid thing.

          As for your child screaming bloody murder, there comes a time when you need to realize you’re the parent and they’re the child. For obvious reasons they are not equipped to make decisions regarding their own safety, which is why they’re supposed to have you. Sit down with and have a conversation with them Mr. Roger’s-style (meaning don’t treat them like they’re an idiot), maybe try and make a game out of it. If they still scream then honestly too bad, let them cry it out. You don’t have debates with your child about if they can stick a fork in an outlet or not do you?

        • ddh
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          12 years ago

          First step IMHO is to understand what problem your kid is solving by having the door open.

  • It's Maddie!
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    652 years ago

    Door open. My kitty sleeps in bed with me and she likes to come and go in the night, she’d wake me up if the door was closed!

    • Agr8lemonOP
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      182 years ago

      Yep, I had a cat that would paw on the door if it wasn’t open. I decided to see how long he’d stick with it. My sanity broke at 2 hours. He won and it was open from that night forward.

    • @[email protected]
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      52 years ago

      I put dog doors on most of my doors because of my cat, otherwise she’d just sit at it meowing until it was opened.

  • 0xED
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    512 years ago

    Closed because many years ago a firefighter gave a fire safety talk at our elementary school. He told us to keep the door closed at night since it can give you an extra 30 minutes to escape in a fire. For some reason this advice stuck with me…

  • @[email protected]
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    392 years ago

    Closed, got to keep separation from the pets so I can sleep peacefully. Don’t need a cat purrkoring off my face at 3 am.

      • Sunstream
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        292 years ago

        It sure is; here’s a video demonstrating the effectiveness. Shutting your door can mean the difference between life and death. I encourage anyone to watch or re-watch this, just to hammer it home.

        Unfortunately, my cats can’t deal with shut doors, so if there’s ever a fire in my apartment, at least we’ll all go together 🙃

      • @[email protected]
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        152 years ago

        Using thermal imaging cameras, researchers found that closed-door rooms on both floors during the fire’s spread had average temperatures of less than 100 degrees Fahrenheit versus 1000+ degrees in the open-door rooms. “You could see a markable difference that a person could be alive in a room with a closed door much longer,” says Kerber.

        Gas concentrations were markedly different as well. The open-door bedroom measured an extremely toxic 10,000 PPM CO (parts per million of Carbon Monoxide), while the closed had approximately 100 PPM CO.

        https://fsri.org/programs/close-before-you-doze

    • @[email protected]
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      12 years ago

      Given that my bedroom windows only open a crack and the balcony to escape down is in the living room, that wouldn’t help me regardless.

      • @[email protected]
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        12 years ago

        In that case, keeping the doors and windows shut will give you the best chance of survival, because there will be less oxygen flow and thus a slower burn.

        You’ll need to call in a fire emergency, lie low on the ground, and try to use a rag/shirt/towel to filter some of the smoke while you wait to be rescued. You still might die, but at least this way you have a chance.

  • @[email protected]
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    232 years ago

    Closed. If there’s a fire in the other parts of your house, you’ll have more time to be alerted and escape.

  • @[email protected]
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    192 years ago

    Closed. Damn cat. She’s not looking to snuggle into bed. She wants to wake you up. Why? Who knows.

  • @[email protected]
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    2 years ago

    Open, so that the air that gets pumped into my room can tell the Mr. Thermostat in the hall that it’s actually fine in there and they don’t need to call Mr. Furnace or Mrs. A/C.

    • @[email protected]
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      12 years ago

      Depending on your thermostat, you might be able to find satellite sensors for each of your rooms. I did this and we can change which temperature sensor the thermostat monitors.

  • StarServal
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    152 years ago

    Closed for AC, but open a crack to let the clingy cat in and out and in and out and in and out and in and out.

  • 👁️👄👁️
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    142 years ago

    Closed unless it’s too hot in my room. Feels uncomfortable leaving my door open. It’ll let me hear killers coming